The East Coast

It’s that time of year when I begin thinking about warmer weather. Which means I’m also thinking about traveling because it will still be a couple of months before we see warmer weather here in the Northeast.

I was remembering our 2011 vacation traveling down the east coast. IT WAS SO MUCH FUN! If you ever have the chance you must do this trip. Here’s how the two weeks went for us:

Day 1: We drove to Atlantic City where I’d booked a room at the Taj Mahal. Our room was absolutely gorgeous, but we thought we should leave it for awhile and check out the town. We walked up and down the boardwalk, had dinner, then went to a casino to really go wild and crazy. We ended up spending several hours at a $1.00 Black Jack table. It took us several hours to lose a good part of the $100.00 we agreed to limit ourselves to. And the dealer at the table was very friendly, and helpful – we learned a lot about Black Jack that night.

Days 2 and 3: Up early riding our bikes on the boardwalk for an hour and a half. Checked out and headed further south. We’d found a place called Parvin State Park in southern New Jersey where we could ride our bikes on the trails. We laughed when we looked at the trail map there, thinking this was going to be like a walk in the park compared to riding on The Kingdom Trails. The joke was on us. Though the trail wasn’t especially technical, it did have some swampy sections and some bridges in disrepair that tipped at 45 degree angles. The challenge was really the low-lying vines which threatened to grab upper extremities, including your head, and pull you off your bike. There were also some ferocious thorny vines close to the sides of the trail which did grab you and draw blood. By the time we’d finished our ride I had two flat tires and we were muddy and bleeding. It was time to move on to Cape May, New Jersey and two nights at The Chalfonte. When my children were young we vacationed in Cape May many summers and I’ve always loved it. We rode our bikes around town, and I was thrilled to see Congress Hall opened and thriving.
Congress Hall - Cape May
We played some golf, spent some time at the beach, and then took the Cape May/Lewes ferry to Maryland.

Days 4 and 5: Headed to Assateague and Chincoteague, taking scenic Route 1, which was all fine until we hit Ocean City, where traffic was slow and there was nothing to look at except high-rise condominiums and we said, NEVER. Keep driving and let’s avoid going through here on the way home. We had a wonderful time here kayaking in the Chincoteague National Wildlife Refuge, walking through town and getting a wonderful copy of Misty of Chincoteague as a gift for my step-daughter, eating at Bill’s BOTH nights because it was so good. We bought a bottle of Bill’s Honey Mustard sauce because it was so darn good and I wanted the list of ingredients so I could try to make it at home. Which I have done. Many times. Someday I’ll post about it in Sustenance. Stay Tuned. Let me share some pictures of this area:

Assateague light
Wild Ponies
the atlantic

Days 6 and 7: Next stop – Nags Head where we had a room at The First Colony Inn. It was a lovely spot in a nice location. We just walked across the street to the beach, and rode our bikes all around the neighborhood. And had the most exhausting adventure ever! We signed up to do a shore dive here and met the dive guide and the rest of our group on the beach at nine in the morning. When we arrived our guide outfitted us with the works and so we suited up. By now the air temperature is around 80 degrees and rising. If you’ve never worn a wetsuit, let me tell you, it is quite warm. And usually black. I was warming up fast and getting anxious to get down the beach and in the water. To avoid getting sand in our air lines, etc. we were told we would get all equipment on and then walk the 200 yards down the beach to the entry point. Then we would swim out about 100 yards, through the surf, to a buoy. Once there we would dive to about 20 feet to a wreck. Here’s my version of how it went.

Trudging across the beach with sweat dripping down all interior parts of my wetsuit, telling myself I could do this I could do this. Flopping into the surf to put my swim fins on, trying to balance with about 50 pounds of excess weight strapped to my back, which I managed. Walk out into the water as far as I could, adjust my buoyancy, locate my buddy and begin the 100 yard swim to the buoy. Thinking Are you kidding me??? It was hard! I was fighting the current and the waves and the difficulty seeing anything and keeping track of my buddy, who was barely visible even though he was swimming right next to me, until. . .finally, I was there. I held onto the buoy line for dear life, catching my breath and trying to figure out what the heck I would see 20 feet down if I couldn’t even see my buddy swimming right next to me. The dive guide said “visibility is poor (duh) but if you look carefully you can see the very edge of the wreck, which is covered with crabs.” Oh, really, I thought, sounds like fun. I opted out of diving down, knowing I still had to swim back to shore, so I clung to that buoy line until my buddy returned from the wreck site (I think it took all of 10 minutes), and we headed back in. Which was almost as difficult as swimming out, but note quite. Until you hit the surf. And it knocked you over and you couldn’t stand up on your own because it kept pushing you down and you were exhausted (we were warned about this in advance and told there would be people on shore to help us up) and then AHHHHH, my hero arrived in the form of a middle-aged man pulling me up and out of the water and hanging on to me until he was sure I could stand on my own and then helped me get that damned heavy tank of air off my back. I love that man, whoever he is. So. Shore diving in Nags Head? Not so much. My buddy and my husband later clued me in that the visibility at the wreck was so poor that if it hadn’t been for the crabs he would not have known there was even a wreck there.

Day 8: Long day of tourism as we drove down The Hatteras National Seashore sightseeing all along the way. We visited the Pea Island Wildlife Refuge, the Chicamacomico Life Saving Station, the Hatteras Light, and Ocracoke. In the evening we took the Cedar Island Ferry across to our destination, Atlantic Beach, N.C.

outer banks beach
Chicamacomico
outer banks
Perched Pelicans
Hatteras light
Ocracoke
ocracoke light

Days 8 – 14: Ahhhh, we have arrived at The Atlantis Lodge in Atlantic Beach, N.C. We had reserved a room for 2 nights, but after the first few hours there we decided to stay a week. What a treat this was. We had a great view from our little deck and a kitchen area, so we could cook in. AND there was a golf course right across the street! We spent the week touring the area on our bikes in the mornings, hanging out at the beach in the afternoons, and golfing in the evenings before dinner. It was the ideal vacation spot for us. While there we visited Cape Lookout National Seashore, Ft. Macon State Park, North Carolina Aquarium, The Country Club of the Crystal Coast, and Theodore Roosevelt Natural Area.

view from the atlantis
Fort
Fort 2
NC sunset
NC Golf
Pelicans fishing
Lighthouse prompt

Yup. I would do it again! It was a fabulous vacation. I love the ocean.

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Hubby does too!

200 Miles, There and Back

You don’t have to travel far to feel like you are a long way from home. Earlier this summer my husband suggested we take a weekend to explore the Magog region at the northernmost point of Lake Memphremagog.

Previous summers found us boating on the lake, crossing the border and cruising as far as Georgeville and exploring Fitch Bay, but we had never been to Magog.



I booked a room for us at The Manoir des Sables in Orford, about four miles north of Magog.

It proved to be the ideal spot. It had all the things we enjoy – proximity to the Lake; bike trails; hiking at nearby Mont Orford; an outdoor swimming pool; a small lake with kayaks, canoes and paddle boats; a spa with indoor pool, hot tub and various other Nordic type spas; a golf course (actually two); and a gourmet restaurant on site.

As we traveled from Jay Peak, where we spent the first night of this long weekend, we went through Newport in the midst of ground breaking news and got some shots of the devastation from moments before.

Traveling north around the eastern side of Lake Memphremagog, passing over Fitch Bay, we viewed this ‘castle’ from afar and vowed to learn more about it before returning home.

After a grueling day of traveling across foreign borders and driving for over an HOUR we checked in and headed for the pool to relax.

Ahh, such relaxation!

That night we splurged on a lovely dinner at the hotel restaurant, Les Jardins. It was scrumptious.

Our room looked over the small lake in the back and gorgeous sunrises.

The next morning we biked into the city of Magog. We went in on the main route, 141, and headed for the nearest information center. There we discovered there were extensive cycling trails in the area and we could access them all the way back to Manoir des Sables. We explored the city of Magog a bit, planning to come back in the evening for dinner. In my mind I’d been expecting Magog to be a quaint french village, but it felt more like a Hampton Beach to me. I did enjoy the park area built along the lake for walkers and cyclists, with it’s scenic places to sit and enjoy the peacefulness of the lake.

We ended up going into Magog twice more during our stay. Friday night we ate at The Liquor Store, downtown. I picked it because I liked the classic rock music the live band was playing. There was no wait because this place has ‘getting them in and out fast’ down to a fine art. Dave had a nice salmon dinner and I enjoyed a spicy honey chicken breast sandwich. It was good, but too noisy for us to talk.

Saturday night we dined at L’Ancrage on the terrace. It is located on the Route Verte cyling trail overlooking the lake. I was thrilled to see mussels on the menu, so that’s what I ordered, provençale. They were DELICIOUS! Our meal was served with a full basket of bread, including herb bread sliced thin and baked to a yummy crunchiness, which was perfect to dip in the musselly provençale juices.

At the hotel there are actually two golf courses. A little par 3 where you can play as much as you want for $7.00 and the 18 hole professional course, which was busy, busy, busy.


One day we visited the public beach in Magog. The view of Owls Head more than 20 miles away was perfect.

The beach – not so much. The ‘sand’ was dirty, the water milfoily, and the bottom mucky, mucky, mucky. The swimming area is roped off, only allowing you to go to a depth waist-high.

Another day we traveled to Parc National du Mont-Orford. It cost us $22.00 to enter the park where we could swim at a small beach that was part of the campground there. We did access the bike trails, covering about 7 km. One stop was La Sarracenie, a cabin where hikers can spend a night. The cabin was complete with multiple bunk beds, a gas stove, kerosene lanterns, running water and an outhouse.

Oh, and this peaceful setting.

We left Sunday, traveling toward Owls Head to check out the ski area and golf courses there. Along the way we did stop at that ‘castle’ seen earlier from the other side of the Lake.

It isn’t actually a castle, but the Abbey of Saint Benoit du Lac.

Being Sunday the monks were in the midst of mass. We were allowed to stroll through and observe. It was a peaceful visit.

Owls Head was our last stop. The ski area was totally abandoned with no available information for hiking in the area. We stopped briefly at the golf course for information. It’s another gorgeous northeast course.

Soon we were over the border and home again. All this done in about 200 miles, round trip. Though we were so close to home it felt like, well, like being in a foreign country.

Okay, we were in a foreign country. One where I think we’ll spend more time in the future.

Bonjour, por maintenant!

Celebrating with a Pro!

Last Thursday was our anniversary. Because we like to celebrate important occasions such as this (truth is we like to celebrate any occasion), we decided to treat ourselves. We had already planned a long weekend trip around Lake Memphremagog – a new adventure.

We drove to Jay Peak mid morning and hiked the mountain before checking in at the new Tram Haus Lodge. This was a beautiful place to stay!

By chance we saw an advertisement for a golf lesson at the Jay Peak course. It included a 9 hole lesson with the pro, AND a cart! Woohoo! This sounded like fun, and something we both really needed. :) The cart made it especially celebratory.

Never having played at Jay it was something new and we’re always excited about something new. So I booked it. Happy Anniversary to us!

Now let me share the experience with you.

David Jankowski was our instructor and we found him to be very amenable. It had to be a bit challenging to instruct two of us at once, but he rose to the challenge and devoted equal time to each of us.

We began with a bag of balls on the driving range – warming up on our own. David joined us and observed quietly for a few moments before we headed to the first tee. We teed off and the pro started right in with advice. Though we’ve been playing for a few years, he covered some of the basics – stance, alignment, swing – with new information for us.

Here he is modeling the swing.

We continued to play 6 holes before he suggested we head back to the driving range where he would do some videos of us and offer suggestions for things to practice once we were on our own.

Before I continue I want to share some of the beauty of this course.



I loved that no matter where we were on the course we had a view of the mountain. Gorgeous.

Back at the driving range the pro shot videos of us with his ipad. Then he could drag a line showing our starting position and as the video played in slow motion we could see where we were going ‘out of alignment’. It wasn’t a pretty picture, but it was a very telling one. It was clear – Dave needs to stop moving up and down, and I need to stop swinging my hips all over the place. That’s just for starters.

In that two hour lesson we learned a ton and left with a list of things to focus on. Some of my ‘things to remember’ include widening my stance, standing closer to the ball, and maintaining a taller stance through my swing. Oh, and “keep the Y” when I putt. That has already proven helpful.

All around, from the lodging, the views, and the quality of the instruction, Jay Peak is all Pro. We would definitely celebrate there again.

Writing Prompt #14

Traveling is fun. Planning trips is fun, too.

With that being said, this week’s prompt is to write about your ideal vacation.

Where would you go and why?

How would you get there?

What would you do?

Who would you see?

How long would you stay?

Write about your fantasy trip – go all out – money, time, health – they are not an issue!

Go for it – imagine yourself there and have a time!

Now that you’ve written about it post that writing in a prominent location and start to make it happen!

Happy travels.

The Providential Tourist

We recently traveled to Wildwood Crest, New Jersey for a long weekend of summer fun with relatives. It’s a long drive for a weekend, but not too bad if you have at least four days.

We decided to leave home ‘early’ so we could have more time with family at the beach. Early to me would be 5 AM, early to my husband was 1 AM – we compromised and left at 3 AM. Fine by me – he was driving those lack of sleep hours.

Last year we traveled part way down the east coast and spent a night in Atlantic City and a night in Cape May, but we’d never been to Wildwood.

There are hundreds of rooming choices, and we settled on a room at the Armada by the Sea. While the location was great – right on Ocean Drive, and the view was lovely – we had an ocean front room on the 2nd floor – it wasn’t the most amenable place I’d ever stayed for around $200.00/night. Let’s just say it was lacking some things – shampoo, coffee fixings (though there was a coffee maker) – and I wasn’t ‘feelin’ the love’ so much. But hey, it was a room, with a view, and a bed.

We enjoyed Wildwood for a few reasons. The beaches are EXPANSIVE. The sand seems to go for miles left to right AND from Ocean Drive to the surf. And it is soft, soft, soft sand, which feels so good on my feet. And there is no charge to use said beaches. According to my father in law, Wildwood is the only place in New Jersey with free beaches.

And the water was warm. Reports suggested about 80 degrees. Most enjoyable.

There is no lack of things to do in the area, in case you don’t love the beach as much as I do. There is the boardwalk – 3 miles long and filled with shops, games, rides, water parks, and people, people, people. We could ride our bikes on it until 11 AM so we did. We also rode a coaster named the Nor’easter. It was aptly named, and I’ll leave it at that.

One morning we rode our bikes to North Wildwood and visited the Hereford Inlet Light.

Infatuated with light houses I visit them any chance I get. And of course I photograph them. This particular one, like many, is not in its original location, but once moved was beautifully landscaped. It’s a real treasure for the area.

As much as I enjoyed time with in-laws and the beach and salt water and biking and boardwalks, losing my wallet was the most memorable event of the weekend.

Let me explain. When we travel I have this little blue change purse that I use for credit cards, ID, cash, and a room key, because it’s small and fits in small places, like pockets, or my husband’s Camel Back when we go biking.

On this particular morning, returning from our boardwalk ride, my husband had a flat tire. I just want to say that the only times we’ve had flat tires are when we’ve been in New Jersey. Just sayin’.

Anyhow, being well prepared Dave had a spare and proceeded to go about changing the tube, which meant removing some items from his Camel Back. Evidently, once the repairs were complete and all items returned to the Camel Back, one pocket wasn’t zipped up tightly. So when we got back to the Armada and I took the Camel Back to retrieve my blue change purse which had the room key in it (and my driver’s license, debit card and about $60.00) I discovered that the zippered compartment of his Camel Back was not zippered and the blue change purse was not there.

PANIC! Not me. I hopped back on my bike and headed back to the spot where Dave had changed the tire, hoping, hoping, hoping. Nothing there. So I followed our route back toward the Armada and past it (as Dave had kept on going right past the place despite my calling his name repeatedly before he realized his mistake and returned to the Armada on our way back from the tire changing incident) all the time checking the ground around me. I was also checking the people around me. Did anyone look suspicious, guilty, theiflike?????

I saw an innocent looking middle-aged woman glancing my way and so veered in her direction. She kindly asked me if I were looking for a blue purse. “Yes, yes!” I exclaimed, ecstatic, thinking she’d found it.

“Did you find it?” I queried.

“No,” she said, “but I saw a man pick it up and he asked me if I’d lost it. I told him no, but the right thing to do would be to take it to the hotel across the street. I think it did go in there.”

I thanked her profusely and headed for the hotel across the street with her calling, “I hope he did the right thing!”
Me too, I thought.

At the hotel I waited while the concierge dealt with an irate customer. And I waited, and waited, and waited for what seemed like hours but was probably only two minutes. I’m not a very patient person and I had the feeling that time was of the essence if I were going to get my possessions back.

Finally, the concierge was free and I asked if anyone had turned in the now infamous blue change purse.

“Karen Kennedy?” she asked.

“Yes, yes, that’s me!” I assured her, now truly hopefully that she was going to hand over the purse.

“No, I’m sorry it’s not here. A man came in a few minutes ago and so we checked to see if you were registered here, but you weren’t so we suggested he take it to the police station.”

Oh. Okay, there’s still hope. She gave me the phone number of the police station and directions and I raced away, thanking her.

Back on my bike I pedaled rapidly the dozen blocks to the police station and raced inside. I have to admit I wondered briefly if it was safe to leave my pricey bike unlocked outside the police station.

The dispatcher on duty listened to my story carefully and gave the ‘hold on’ sign by holding an index finger in the air while she peeked at her computer monitor. When she returned to the window she said she was waiting for a call from one of the officers because there was a report that he’d received some ‘lost merchandise.’

“Why don’t you have a seat until he calls me back. It should just be a minute,” she smiled.

I sat there reminiscing about a time I’d had to cancel and renew my debit card and what an inconvenience it was and I really hoped I wasn’t going to have to go through that again, and how difficult would it be to replace my driver’s license?

Before long the dispatcher was back at the window to tell me that the officer was on his way back to the station with the ‘lost merchandise.’

A moment later said officer walked in the door, glanced my way, smiled and held up my precious blue change purse. “A man flagged down my cruiser a few minutes ago to give me this,” he smiled.

“Hallelujah!” I gushed and clapped. After a few minutes while he did his paperwork and had me sign for it, I now had my ‘found merchandise’ and was thoroughly grateful to all the honest and kind souls I’d encountered in the last 15 minutes.

Sometimes it is all about the timing. That day, everything happened in such a way that it made me wonder if someone were watching out for that blue change purse and orchestrating every action carefully over those 15 minutes. Just in case that were so, I thanked the universe before pedaling back to the Armada to share the good news with Dave.

I told him it was karma because of the time I gave ‘that guy’ $20.00. But that’s another story.